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You are here: Home / My Dogs / I Finally Acknowledge My Senior Dog Will Die Soon

I Finally Acknowledge My Senior Dog Will Die Soon

June 8, 2018 by Seattle DogSpot 12 Comments

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(Originally published on July 15, 2013)

Senior Dog Moment

my senior dog

When he was a puppy Dylan would lay in my lab while I read.

I can pinpoint the exact moment I finally acknowledged that Dylan, my 11-year-old chocolate Labrador retriever, was a senior dog entering the final stage of his life.

Anyone with a Labrador retriever or retriever mix can attest that these dogs LOVE food. Anytime a shred of food is within smelling distance (and smelling distance is usually anywhere within a radius of a mile or so), these dogs hone in on it like a Seattleite on a latte.

In the past I couldn’t do anything in the kitchen without Dylan showing up within seconds to hunt for any stray crumbs I might drop. I couldn’t even open the cheese drawer in the refrigerator without instigating a one-dog stampede to the kitchen.

But one day when I was in the kitchen making lunch, I noticed Dylan wasn’t there. I even made a little extra noise just in case he didn’t hear me, but he still didn’t come.

Room Service for Dylan

my senior dog

Tennis ball in mouth = Happy Labrador Retriever. Photo from Seattle DogSpot.

I found him on his favorite couch in the basement, eyes open, tail wagging slightly, and looking as if he was waiting for room service.

Of course I went back up to the kitchen to bring him a bit of food I would have “accidentally dropped” on the floor if he was in his usual spot in the kitchen.

It wasn’t hard for me to figure out why he didn’t come for some food. The amount of energy he could expend in a day had started to decline, so after calculating how much energy it would take to go up and down the stairs he decided the trip just wasn’t worth the effort.

That’s when I knew the time my food crazy dog had an extremely limited amount of time left to be with us. Or at least it was the first time I allowed myself to acknowledge it.

Watching My Dog Decline for the First Time

I’ve never witnessed one of my dogs as they transitioned to old age. I got Smokey, my only other dog before Dylan, when I was 11. He was only 7 by the time I left home for college, so I missed his transition from a still-spry middle-aged dog to a more feeble, elderly dog.

Seeing him after I had been gone for months was always a shock, but I never had that “a-ha moment” that shattered the barriers I erected between myself and the realization that he would be gone sooner than I could admit.

Reminders that Dylan’s Time Grows Short

Now that I’ve had that a-ha moment with Dylan, these reminders of his advanced age and declining health constantly buzz around my head, deftly avoiding my attempts to swat them away:

  • Laying down in the middle of walks. Dylan tires out much more quickly on walks. Almost every time we go for one he stops at least once to lie down and rest.
  • He lays down at the bottom of the stairway to our house.We have to go up 45 stairs to get to our front door. Dylan now lies down at the bottom of the stairway for 5-10 minutes to rest before he begins the long climb.
  • Sleeping in one spot all night. Our house has 3 floors. Dylan used to move several times during the night to sleep in different places on different floors. Now he sleeps in one place – in the office next to our bedroom.

    my senior dog

    Dylan loved Canon Beach, OR. Photo from Seattle DogSpot.

  • Weakening hind legs. He now stands up in two stages: first his front end springs up quickly, then his struggling hind legs follow several more seconds later.
  • He’s very lumpy. As some dogs age, especially Labs, they get lumps which are a called fatty tumors. Dylan has several of them.
  • Confusion. Sometimes while walking across a room he just stops and stares into space for 15-30 seconds.
  • A LOT of gray hair. He doesn’t just have a gray face. He has gray eyebrows, gray feet, gray toes, gray chest gray everywhere.
  • Shorter Playtime. He used to be able to fetch the ball for hours. Now, especially when it’s hot, he only lasts about 10 minutes.
  • He wants the Early Bird Special. He wants his dinner earlier and earlier (he’s almost got us back to 3PM) so he can be in bed for the night by 7 PM.
  • As I mentioned before, he no longer magically appears in the kitchen whenever I open the refrigerator.
my senior dog

We knew Dylan wouldn’t be with us long after he lost interest in tennis balls. Photo from Seattle DogSpot.

Senior Dogs Rock

As much as I hate watching Dylan age, I do love senior dogs.

They have a quiet dignity about them, no use for drama, and are firmly embedded in their routines. They know how to communicate exactly what they want. They’re crotchety.

Their biggest problem? They aren’t senior dogs long enough.

Savoring Our Small Moments

I can’t ignore the signs of Dylan’s quickly advancing age. I can no longer pretend that he’ll be around forever.

That’s not necessarily a bad thing.

It means that I take time out of my day, regardless of how busy I am, to simply sit with him or I pet him a little longer than normal. Sometimes I slip some extra food into his bowl. Or I patiently sit with him at the bottom of the stairs when he’s not ready to climb them. Or after I put him to bed I ignore it when I hear him get up on the one couch in the house he’s not allowed on.

Doing these things will not ease the searing pain or crushing sadness I’ll feel when he dies. But it does help me accept that he’ll be gone soon and savor the time we have left together.

The good news is that Dylan still has some gas left in his tank. I took this picture 3 weeks ago, and it’s how I’ll always remember him – ears flapping, paws outstretched, water spraying, soaring towards his tennis ball.

The essence of joy.

my senior dog

Lab joy.

 

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  1. Brandy says

    May 2, 2016 at 3:32 pm

    Thats adorable seeing dylan just jump right into the water my nakia is the same but around 20 now

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    • Seattle DogSpot says

      May 3, 2016 at 9:46 am

      20? That’s amazing!

      Reply
  2. Seattle DogSpot says

    July 25, 2016 at 7:35 am

    I’m sorry I’m not a vet and can’t make a recommendation. If you haven’t taken her to your vet lately you should get his/her opinion.

    Reply
  3. Donna Greenhut says

    July 2, 2017 at 7:14 pm

    We have a dalmatian mix we rescued in 2005 – they think she was a year old at the time – She has been my walking/workout buddy for the past 12 years – EVERY DAY sometime two or three times a day we run and walk. Lately she is tired and sleeps a lot – she still loves our outings but doesn’t run anymore. I fear her time is coming – and we’ve had a good run – I don’t know how to recognize if she’s suffering – she just seems tired and not herself. I want her to be with me for a long time, but reality is her time will approach soon – and I don’t know what I’ll do without her.

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    • Seattle DogSpot says

      July 2, 2017 at 8:02 pm

      12 years is a long time, and it’s never long enough.

      Reply
      • Mark H. says

        February 10, 2018 at 7:38 am

        Just put my little “Duchess” down a few days age. 19 yrs old, could see she was in pain, same symptoms as with your dog but had a seizure in my arms 5 days before but she was a fighter & didn’t want to let her daddy go & the same with me.
        Pain meds loosing effect so I had to do what was best.
        Now trying to deal with the pain of the lose of my baby-its hard.
        Trying to understand it was the best thing for her, but will she understand what I did & why?

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        • Seattle DogSpot says

          February 10, 2018 at 10:55 am

          If she was in pain then I think that was the best thing you could do for her. I’m sure she understands.

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          • Seattle DogSpot says

            July 5, 2018 at 9:07 am

            I’m so sorry. We let our dog go at home as well. Much better for everyone. I hope you get another dog when you’re ready.

        • Adrian says

          January 18, 2019 at 6:06 pm

          The years we have with our dogs is very fleeting at best. Enjoy the memorable moments with them. I m a form believer we will see them again in heaven. That’s gives me some comfort.

          Reply
          • Seattle DogSpot says

            January 20, 2019 at 7:53 am

            I hope you’re right!

  4. Hil Chambers says

    March 5, 2018 at 10:11 pm

    Our graying Bailey is 12, lumpy, no longer squats to do his business outside, and doesn’t chase squirrels anymore. Our furry son, we call him. My 10yo calls him his brother. And my 2yo daughter smothers him with kisses, and hugs all day long. It’s almost unsettling how much she loves him. He recently started sleeping by the front door, unable to climb his favorite couch. But he still loves food. It just takes him a bit longer to get to it now. I know his time is soon approaching, but beside the incredible ache that we will all feel when this happens, I’m having to research on ways to explain grief to a toddler for the first time. It’s all I think about. Our Bai.

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    • Seattle DogSpot says

      March 6, 2018 at 8:57 am

      I’m so sorry. I’m sure there’s a lot of material out there on the subject.

      Reply

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